The wedding night is very highly anticipated by many intended couples. If you haven’t been intimate with your partner post-wedding, you’re surely anxious about what happens on the wedding night. With that much anxiety, it can be nerve-racking and stressful. However, there are things you and your partner can do to make it unforgettable.
Advance Planning is Crucial
Your first night is not any ordinary night. This is the night which you have been waiting for so long. That is why it is imperative to plan things in advance to ensure that everything is as romantic as possible. Candles, flowers, champagne, and other romantic accoutrements are required. Book a nice hotel. it is critical to establish a romantic atmosphere in order to make your first-night extra special.
Prepare yourself
Preparing just the room is not enough; you two should also prepare yourself for the night. You’ll be tired because of the day-long wedding processions. So, it’s recommended that both partners must take a bath before entering the room. The idea is that you should have a nice smell and a clean body. Check your breath; you must not have bad breath. Wash your mouth and use some mouth freshener or mint to avoid any bad breath. You could have some aphrodisiacs: whatever works for you.
Lower Your Expectations
It’s so important to remember that not everyone is going to have great sex on their wedding night. This can be for several reasons but try not to get too caught up in it all. Sometimes it’s just not the right time, whether that’s down to being totally exhausted or otherwise, the most important thing is spending time with your other half and enjoying yourselves.
Relax Together
The easiest way to relax and let go is to have some soothing music playing in the background. A slow dance is a perfect way to start your new life. you could look through your wedding photos. Have a friend take some pictures that you can lay in bed with at the end of the day and scroll through them together.
Share Gifts
Give your spouse a special gift. Won’t it be nice to gift him something thoughtful to mark this special night? Something he’s wanted for a long or something you’d love to see him wearing/ using. Attach a heartfelt note to that gift and we swear, he’ll be touched. The same applies to the men: give her something special. Gifts have a way of creating butterflies in the tummy.
Fill your room with Fragrance
Scents are carried to your brain’s emotional centre, where they can stimulate memories, emotions and moods. They soothe, relax, energize or arouse. If you’re staying in a hotel room, arrange to have a bouquet of flowers put by the bed, as well as scented candles.
Express your love
You may be exhausted or you may just be in a hurry to get into action but don’t forget to tell him how much you love him. This day, you two begin a new life and it’s the one occasion you definitely must express your love towards him. Express your feelings for her, and thank her for becoming a part of your life. Furthermore, such interactions would create a romantic atmosphere, allowing the bride to open up and gain a sense of trust, confidence, and security.
Don’t Rush
Many sources have said a big mistake many make is rushing to have sex on their wedding night. It can leave you empty and unsatisfied, yet with little or no desire to try again. It can feel like you’ve been waiting forever, however, try not to be hasty. Listen to what your body is telling you. Furthermore, your partner, assuming they’re also lacking experience, is going to need to slow down as well. Take time to get intimate in other ways. You’ll be together for a long time. Why the rush?
Sources: happywedding.app, brides.com
