Nigerian life coach and relationship expert Solomon Buchi has shared an unsettling message he received in his DMs.
The lady, in her bold approach, expressed her readiness to replace his wife, writing,
Hi, if your wife wants to leave you, I am here for you. Smiles.”
Reacting to the inappropriate message, Buchi exposed the sender’s identity, a move that sparked mixed reactions. While many supported his decision, some criticized him, questioning why he revealed her identity. Buchi dismissed the critics, labeling them as potential “side chicks” who sympathized with the sender’s audacious behavior.
All those women asking why I revealed her name are probably side chics,” he said.
The incident drew various reactions online, with some social media users lamenting the lack of solidarity among women:
- Phoenixgold: “Women supporting women is a fallacy. They all want what their fellow woman is enjoying.”
- Zikaokeke: “Na husband wey go expose like this I dey find.”
- Evelyn_xx: “Shame wear me isi agu. I shame for this woman.”
- Olive Praise: “The audacity. Some people don’t want you; they just want what you have.”
In recent years, Solomon Buchi has consistently shared insights about marriage and relationships. He previously highlighted how marriage teaches patience, tames stubbornness, and fosters accountability between couples. Buchi emphasized that openness, such as having access to each other’s phones, builds trust and prevents unnecessary temptations.
On another occasion, the relationship expert advised against the pitfalls of victimhood, encouraging people to take responsibility for their lives instead of seeking sympathy.
Recently, Solomon Buchi and his wife welcomed their first child, Baby J, marking a significant milestone in their marriage. The life coach described the journey of fatherhood as both challenging and rewarding, stating that the experience gave him a glimpse of God’s unconditional love.
Our lives changed since our Baby J came into our lives last year. The sleepless nights, joyful frustrations, and excitement make it worth it,” Buchi shared.
He also reflected on his love story with his wife, recalling how he proposed three months after meeting her, showing that intentionality and clarity are key in any relationship.
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