Reality television star Bella Okagbue recently shared her opinion on a contentious topic: whether people should check their partner’s phone.
Bella firmly believes that partners should respect each other’s privacy and avoid checking each other’s phones. This sparked a heated debate in the comment section, revealing a sharp divide among her followers.
Many followers disagreed with Bella, emphasizing the importance of transparency in relationships. For instance, one user, oluchi5102, shared a personal experience, stating,
Omo I go check o checking of phone helped me a lot.” This sentiment was echoed by another user, madame_abbey, who wrote, “Pls go through the phone he might have another family….. you might also be deceiving yourself and dating yourself.”
However, not everyone was critical. Some users agreed with Bella’s stance on maintaining privacy in relationships. User sir_gcw was less concerned with the topic and more critical of Bella’s delivery, commenting, “She sounds very unintelligent indeed.”
This opinion about Bella’s delivery was shared by other users who were more concerned about how she expressed her views rather than the views themselves.
The discussion continued with users sharing varied perspectives:
– **everythingbangingbody1** reflected on a public figure’s situation: “If MAY EDOCHIE used to check her husband’s phone, she would have bursted them earlier and who knows, oga wouldn’t have entered that bottle.”
– **mheenarh** highlighted the emotional toll of checking a partner’s phone: “My own is if you know when you see anything on that phone, you won’t leave. You will just cry and stay, don’t bother to check.”
– **mayXc_x** pointed out a contradiction in privacy standards: “Privacy but una dey enter each other’s private part.”
– **kingshubz** offered a philosophical take: “A wise person once told me for a relationship to work one person has to be blind the other has to be deaf.”
Some comments emphasized health and safety concerns, with **omalicha_peter23** saying, “Check o, a woman avoided getting HIV from her partner because she checked his phone.”
There were also comments that reflected practical stances on trust and transparency in relationships:
– **kikimiyaki** stated, “I will not marry a man I can’t check his phone simple.”
– **tksparkle** shared a pragmatic approach: “I dey check anything checkable abeg. I don’t even trust my own damn shadow. 70% trust, 30% for shock absorber… it’s better to be safe than sorry.”Others like **vivianlam_glamour** believed in occasional checks guided by intuition: “No be u go tell me Wetin to do. I don’t check often but once my spirit leads me to the phone. I go obey straight.”
The conversation also touched on perceived contradictions, with **officialshugar_** pointing out: “It’s your privacy, but your private part that should be private is not private???? You people will be alright!”
This wide range of reactions highlights the complexities and differing views on privacy and trust within relationships, showing that what works for one couple might not work for another.
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