Relationships might be in for some trouble as media personality and actress Toke Makinwa takes aim at those who share their friends’ private matters with their partners—especially the ladies.
In a recent post, Toke emphasized the importance of keeping your friend’s business private and not spilling their secrets to your partner just for the sake of gossip. She pointed out that many men warn their girlfriends to stay away from certain friends based on what they’ve heard about them through such conversations.
Toke went on to say that her personal affairs shouldn’t be shared with anyone’s man, as her friendship contract is strictly between herself and her friend, not the man in question.
This statement stirred a heated debate online, with netizens divided on the issue. Some supported Toke’s perspective, while others felt differently:
- fatthysia commented, “This advice, you didn’t put it well. Ladies, when you have a friend crazily in love, keep quiet around them.”
- taaatibg wrote, “Don’t discuss your family and friends’ affairs with your man/husband. They will use it to insult you.”
- olaoluwilliams added, “It’s better your married friend doesn’t know your business because husband and wife will surely ‘gist’ about people. Know this and know peace. Shalom!”
- uzommy chimed in, “Women, keep responsible friends, so you can have good stories to tell your man.”
Others, like pelumi_pink, pointed out, “The most amazing part is that the man would never talk about his friends to you because men know boundaries. But we women, chochocho!!!”
Toke’s opinion has sparked necessary conversations about the boundaries within relationships and friendships, leaving many to reconsider what’s appropriate to share with their partners.
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