The wife of Nigerian skit maker Ijoba Lande has been forced to defend herself against harmful allegations online. There have been vile accusations that she is the cause of her husband’s depression. People are claiming the depression led to his disappearance for four days. Earlier, she had taken to social media to appeal for help in finding her husband. Lande had surprisingly left home without his phone after breaking his fast one morning.
However, when he was found, many accused his wife of bringing too many responsibilities into their marriage. They further claim that this led to his depression and subsequent disappearance.
In a video shared on Instagram Live, Lande’s wife tearfully denied causing her husband any frustration or pressure. Furthermore, she begged him to reveal why he left home. She maintained that she had always been supportive of her husband. She also denied claims of bringing children from a previous relationship into their union. You can see the video here.
The incident has caused concern among fans of the musician, who have been worried about his welfare. Depression and mental health issues remain a significant challenge in Nigeria, with many people struggling to access appropriate support and care.
Lande’s case highlights the need for greater awareness and understanding of these issues and for better access to mental health services across the country.
It is hoped that Lande’s recovery will continue and that he will be able to find the support he needs to manage his mental health challenges. His wife’s public statement may also help to counter some of the negative stereotypes and stigmas surrounding depression and mental illness and encourage more open and honest conversations about these important issues.
