To have your grandparents alive is indeed a blessing. Do not take that for granted. Many wish they had the opportunity to meet their grandparents. Establishing a bond with grandparents is great for children in many ways. They can be positive role models and influences, and they can provide a sense of cultural heritage and family history. Grandparents provide their grandkids with love, have their best interests at heart, and can make them feel safe.
There was a time when it was common for several generations of family members to live close together—often in the same home. Close association with one’s grandparents was a way of life. Nowadays, great distances may separate young ones from their grandparents. Nonetheless, there are a few things you can do in order to bond with your grandparent(s).
Take the Initiative
If your grandparents live nearby, you might get in the habit of making regular visits. If the visits are boring, because of the awkward silence, try to get a conversation going. show an interest in your grandparents. Get them to talk about the things they care about. How do they feel? What have they been doing? They might enjoy talking about the past. So ask them what life was like when they were young. Or what was your father or mother like when they were young. Grandparents are often rich repositories of family history, and they are probably more than willing to regale you with fascinating stories.
Think of Things You Can Do
Depending on their age, some grandparents are quite active. Your grandma can give you lessons in cooking, and gardening. You could go on walks together. You could just sit and stare into the distance and talk about random things. The idea is to spend time with them. You’ll definitely look back and cherish those moments.
What if your grandparents live far away?
Many times, your grandparents could live in a different state, sometimes in another country. If possible, try to visit. Between visits, do what you can to maintain contact. Don’t underestimate the power of an old-fashioned handwritten letter. The older ones come from a generation different from ours. Many young ones have been surprised to find out that their grandparents have saved every letter that they have written since childhood. Letters can be read and reread—and cherished. You could also send them your photographs as you grow older, and hit significant life milestones. Send them birthday pictures, and graduation pictures. They cherish hard copies.
There are many ways to build and maintain a close relationship with your grandparents, whether they live near or far. By all means, make the effort.
