It’s not wrong for you to be worried about your appearance. However, many youths are obsessed with how they look and that can lead to severe problems. Of course, it’s good to be concerned about how you look. But excessive concern about how people view you is not so good. Let’s see why.
The Best Improvement You Can Make.
Really, it’s the inner person that makes one either attractive or not. While there’s nothing wrong with wanting to look good, far more important than your appearance is your personality. In the long run, praiseworthy qualities will make you more attractive to others than a strong body or a beautiful figure will. Prettiness can get quick attention, but who you are on the inside and your good qualities are what people will remember about you the most.
Put in the Work.
If you’re not happy about how you look because of your weight, you need to put in the work. It requires a lot of effort to lose weight. You need to eat right, and exercise. It will not take a day to drop your weight. It will take weeks, and months of consistent work before you see good results.
Dress Well.
If you’re not comfortable with your appearance, you need to put on clothes that complement you. Clothes that you’re comfortable in. Some clothes could be trendy, but also complement your shape and won’t make you uncomfortable. Dress up for yourself, not for people.
Focus On Reality.
There are a lot of other important things in life. You have a job. You have a family. You have a life to live. Everything doesn’t revolve around your appearance, how you dress, and what you look like. Focus on your career, and how you can grow. Focus on school, and how you can succeed in academics. Focus on your family and friends, they need you. Your appearance is
secondary.
