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How to Maintain Personal Space and Boundaries.

by Emmanuel Ozoamalu
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Imagine this scenario. You’re all settled into your apartment, Netflix is playing in the background and you’re just about to get comfortable on the couch when your mom pops her head in the door. She’s just in town for a quick visit and she wants to know if you want to go out to lunch. What do you do? Chances are, if you’re like most people, you’ll probably end up going out to lunch with your mom. After all, it’s tough to say no to family, right? What does it matter if it’s an encroachment of your boundary or personal space?

But what if you don’t want to go out to lunch with your mom? What if you’d rather stay in and watch Netflix? How do you set boundaries and maintain personal space without hurting your mom’s feelings?

In this post, we’ll teach you how to set boundaries and maintain personal space with your family members – without coming across as cold or uninviting.

What Are Boundaries and Why Are They Important?

You may be wondering: what the heck are boundaries, and why should I even care? Boundaries are basically just limits that we place on how much we interact with others. They can be physical, emotional, or mental boundaries. We need boundaries because we need to protect our personal space. This is especially important when we’re living in close quarters with family members – we don’t want them encroaching on our space and making us feel uncomfortable.

It’s important to communicate your boundaries to your family members and to enforce them when necessary. This way, everyone can live comfortably in the same space without feeling like they’re being suffocated

How to Set Boundaries With Family Members.

You’re at your parent’s house for the holidays, and you’ve had just about enough. Your little brother is following you around like a lost puppy, and your mom is asking you about your love life for the thousandth time. It’s time to set some boundaries.


The first step is to be assertive. Tell your family members what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. For example, let them know that you’re not interested in discussing your love life and that you’d appreciate it if they gave you some space. If they don’t listen, don’t be afraid to speak up again (or even leave the room).


The second step is to create physical boundaries. This can be as simple as putting a boundary between yourself and the person who’s invading your space (e.g., positioning yourself at an angle or choosing to sit across from them instead of next to them). You can also try using verbal cues – like saying “back off” – to let them know that they’re crossing a line.

With a little bit of assertiveness and boundary-setting, you can enjoy your holiday season without feeling overwhelmed or invaded.

Maintaining Personal Space With Family Members

When it comes to maintaining personal space with family members, it can be a little tricky. After all, they are the people who have known you since birth, and probably know all of your embarrassing quirks. It can even be doubly difficult with your siblings who have see you finish as we say. Don’t worry though, we have you covered on that here.

But it’s important to remember that you are an individual, with your own needs and wants. Just because you’re related to someone doesn’t mean you have to let them steamroll all over your personal space.

These are a summary of some tips you can portray to maintain personal space.

  • Decide what your personal space limits are, and communicate them clearly
  • If someone crosses your boundaries, politely but firmly tell them to stop
  • If they continue to cross your boundaries, put some distance between you and them (physically or emotionally)
How to Deal With Family Members Who Don’t Respect Boundaries.

It can be tough to set boundaries with family members who don’t respect them, but you’ve got to stand your ground. Here are a few tips for handling the situation:

First, try explaining why you need boundaries and how they’re important to you. If that doesn’t work, it might help to set some rules – like not coming into your room without knocking, or not touching your things without asking first.

If all else fails, you might have to resort to more drastic measures. It can be tough, but sometimes you have to distance yourself emotionally and physically from family members who don’t respect your boundaries. It’s not easy and can be frustrating, but it’s worth it in the end.

It can be tough to set boundaries with family members, but it’s important to do so in order to maintain your mental and emotional health. You don’t have to be rude or unapproachable – simply setting clear boundaries can make a big difference.

Family members may not always understand why you’re setting boundaries, but it’s important to stick to them anyway. Explain your reasoning calmly and politely, and if they continue to push the boundaries, be prepared to stand your ground.

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