Have you been attracted to women, yet none of them is ever attracted to you? Have you asked multiple ladies out and all of them reject you, subtly or bluntly? Then you’re the problem. There are a few things you must do to fix yourself. Don’t worry. You’ll be fine. Let’s give you a few tips. Before you decide to pursue a particular lady, there are some basic skills you need to master, and these will help you to be friends with anyone. Consider the following:
Cultivate good manners.
Before people take you seriously you have to have good manners. Be respectful. Be chivalrous. The way you carry yourself and treat others will give people a hint of what will happen if they come around you. So before you think of attracting ladies to yourself, you need to work on becoming a better individual.
Maintain personal hygiene.
This is the most important point of all. My guy, you have to be clean. There is no shortcut to this. You have to be clean from head to toe. Your haircut, your beard, your clothes, and your shoes, all have to be spotless, at all times. You have to smell good. Make sure you don’t have bad breath. Also, where you stay has to be clean as well. There’s no lady in her right sense who would like to be around a dirty guy.
Your communication skills are critical. Do you talk too much? Or do you talk too little? What kind of words comes out of your mouth? Do your words have substance? Ladies want an intelligent man. No, he is not an arrogant person who always blows his trumpet. That is s a repellent. They also love funny guys. So it would help if you learned to strike a balance between being smart, funny and engaging.
The truth is that not every lady will like you. There’s nothing you can do about it. Learn to value yourself enough to walk away from someone who doesn’t value you. Focus on developing yourself. You will definitely attract the ladies without even trying.